I don’t know about you, but I keep a list of looks I see on other people, in magazines, or just think of, and strive to bring to fruition. Sometimes I already have the ingredients I need to carry it off. But most of the time I’m missing some of the requisite pieces, so you know what that means: shopping.
People tend to pooh-pooh shopping, but make no mistake: this is no meandering, vague, waiting-for-something-to-strike-me activity. Shopping of this variety is a focused quest, a search for materials to create something bigger. Sometimes it’s easily accomplished, but in many cases it entails entering countless stores, traversing various neighborhoods, online order returns…
What happens if you are deterred by lack of motivation? You miss the look. And having had the idea doesn’t cut it: when someone refers to a painting or sculpture and says “I could’ve done that,” the only reply is, “Maybe, but you didn’t.”
And when you see it through? Need I speak of the gratification in flipping through a marked-up magazine and seeing all the styles you successfully emulated?
Here are some of the looks I’m so pleased I made happen:
** The hoodie under the blazer: After seeing lots of girls looking sporty-chic in magazines and in person, I decided that all of my blazers could stand to have a hood spilling out from under the collar. I liked the necklace-effect of a zipper slicing down the chest, so I decided to look for a zip-up. Ebay was my saving grace in this case– after a little browsing, I found and won a Split zip-up hoodie snug enough to minimize bulk underneath my puff-sleeve blazers.
** The long, chunky, wooden-bead necklace: Some things you just can’t make yourself, but a necklace is not one of them. When my desire for a long chunky necklace got so strong that I just couldn’t stand it anymore, I headed over to the bead district on West 37th Street. Phoenix beads (http://www.phoenixbeads.com/) is a feast for the eyes, but I narrowed my search down to a 2-foot long string of gray-green wooden beads, each about an inch and a quarter square. $4 later, I have a new favorite necklace.
I can’t just crow about my successes. Here’s a look that got away:
** Strappy sandals, preferably metallic, over black opaque tights: Adorable and kind of nerdy-glam, I just never sought out the right sandals. Now that the summer’s approaching, no more black tights for me. But maybe next fall…